At Oakland Care Group, we understand that moving a parent into a care home can stir up complex emotions for the whole family. What many children of the parents experience is the guilt of putting parent in care homes. This is normal because we all want our parents to be in safe hands.
Our team has supported many families through this transition, and we’re here to help you navigate these emotional challenges.
The Guilt of Putting Parent in Care Home
It’s completely normal to experience feelings of guilt when moving a parent into a care home.
You might question whether you’re making the right decision or feel you should be providing care yourself. Remember that choosing professional care often means providing your parent with the best possible support for their needs.
“The best decision we made was moving mum to Oakland Court. The care and attention she receives has given us such peace of mind. We know she’s safe, well-cared for, and happy.”
– Daughter of Resident, Oakland Court
Managing Your Parent’s Emotions
Your parent may experience a range of emotions, including:
• Anxiety about the change
• Sadness about leaving their home
• Worry about losing independence
• Fear of the unknown
Our experienced care team is skilled at supporting new residents through these feelings. We take time to understand each person’s concerns and work at their pace to help them feel secure and valued in their new home.
Supporting Family Members
We recognise that siblings and other family members may have different views about care decisions.
Our team can:
• Host family meetings to discuss care plans
• Provide regular updates
• Offer guidance on how to support each other
• Share success stories from other families
Professional Support
Sometimes, additional support can help manage the emotional aspects of this transition. We can recommend:
• Local support groups for families
• Professional counselling services
• Resources for understanding the adjustment period
• Strategies for maintaining family relationships
“The staff at Oakland Grange have been wonderful in supporting not just mum, but our whole family through this change. Their communication and understanding made such a difference.”
– Family Member, Oakland Grange
Finding Peace of Mind
Remember that choosing a care home often leads to:
• Better quality of care
• Improved safety
• Enhanced social opportunities
• Professional support 24/7
• Peace of mind for the whole family
Our commitment to exceptional care means you can feel confident your parent is receiving the support they need, allowing you to return to being a son or daughter rather than a caregiver.
We’re Here to Support You
If you or your loved one is struggling with the emotional aspects of moving into a care home, our experienced team is here to help.
We welcome you to visit either Oakland Court or Oakland Grange to discuss your concerns and see how we support both residents and their families.
Contact us:
Email: enquiries@oaklandcare.co.uk
Website: https://oaklandcare.co.uk/
